This year during Holy Week, I am in the odd position of being a full time parent while my husband is serving as a full-time transitional minister in a congregation. Our roles are reversed! This gives me the opportunity to spend a lot more time with my children, and we thought that we would take advantage of this with some special plans for Holy Week. I am totally aware that most families will not want to take part in all of these activities, but I am hoping that our celebrations will inspire your own.
Wednesday of Holy Week: Passover
Holy Week is a great time to review the story of the Passover, since that is the holiday which Jesus was celebrating with his disciples on Maundy Thursday. Over the years, we have celebrated Passover in many ways, from a whole congregational celebration to a simple meal at home. This year, we are planning a modified Passover meal and activities.
- Story: We will read the story of the Passover from the DK Children’s Illustrated Bible. They are the stories titled “The Tenth Plague” and “The Crossing of the Red Sea.” Our family knows the story of the Exodus quite well; if yours is less familiar, you might want to start earlier in the story with “Moses is Called by God,” “Moses Warns Pharaoh,” and “The Plagues of Egypt.”
- Meal: There are specific elements to the Passover meal which we will have on a plate in the center of the table, on good dishes, with candles. We will also eat them as our main meal for the evening. Our menu includes roasted chicken (zaroah), veggie tray (karpas), Romaine lettuce salad with Honey Mustard Dressing (maror), hard-boiled eggs (beitzah), Apple Crisp (haroset), pita bread (matzah), and sparkling grape juice. I learned more about what goes on a seder plate and why here: http://haaretz.com/israel-news/what-is-a-seder-plate-1.5244183
- Song: Our family knows the song “Pharoah, Pharoah” from camp, and it works great for telling the story of the Exodus, so I am sure we will sing a few verses. You can find it here: https://youtu.be/Oh_YlkgowHQ
- Movie: Our favorite movie about the Exodus is the 1998 animated film “The Prince of Egypt.” We own it on DVD, but you can also rent it on various streaming platforms. It will be a great way to end our evening.
Maundy Thursday
On Maundy Thursday, we will attend the livestream of our church’s worship service. To make the evening more interactive for our children, I will print out this coloring page on cardstock: https://marydeandraws.com/2016/03/the-mandatum-novum-love-one-another-coloring-page.html
We will also plan to wash one another’s feet, which is a custom we have had for many years. Jesus washed the feet of his disciples, and asks us to show our love to one another in this same way. Depending on how the evening goes, there might also be time for pre-Easter pedicures!
Good Friday
On Good Friday, we will attend the livestream of our church’s worship service. To make the evening more interactive, for our children, I will print our this coloring page on cardstock: https://marydeandraws.com/2017/03/come-luke-2342-43-bible-coloring-page-english-spanish.html
Mary Dean Draws has a ton of free coloring pages for Good Friday, but this is my favorite one.
Our church does a Tenebrae service for Good Friday. One of the main actions is to extinguish each of 7 candles during the course of the service. I plan to round up 7 candles for our children to take turns extinguishing as we participate in the service from home.
Easter Sunday
On Easter, we will attend the livestream of our church’s worship service. Our Sunday coloring pages are from Illustrated Ministry this season: https://store.illustratedministry.com/collections/lent-2021/products/bible-story-coloring-pages-spring-2021?variant=32093422157922
I don’t usually pay for coloring pages; I am used to making them for myself. These are totally worth it, and give you a whole season in one file.
To make this service a bit more interactive for our children, I plan to dig out some noisemakers for the occasion. We are at home, so there is no one to disturb, right? Every time we hear the word “Alleluia!” we are going to make some noise! We will round out the celebration with Easter baskets and a holiday feast! Dessert will definitely be the empty tomb rolls that we always make for Easter. You can find the recipe here: http://pleasegivepeasachance.blogspot.com/2010/04/empty-tombsresurrection-buns.html
A blessed Holy Week to you and yours. I pray that our plans spark some ideas for your own celebrations.